Too Soon?

Jerry and I are in our hotel room in Paris, having a glass of wine after a day of visiting the Victor Hugo house, having a very late lunch and making a pilgrimage to Babka Zana for cinnamon babka and poppy seed brioche.

Every day we increase the number of walked steps, but in the back of my mind I worry, is it enough? We head to Bordeaux tomorrow and I'm really not sure how much walking we will do every day, so I'm concerned.

I wish I had had another week with my new foot before the trip. I'm still getting used to its springiness, and if I don't put full weight on it going downhill, my knee will bend too much. I'm still not brave enough going down these inclines without holding on to Jerry.

But we are having a lot of fun. We ended up coming to Paris earlier than we had originally planned because of the impending French Air Traffic Controller strike. It was called off, but I'm still glad we didn't take a chance.

And while I'm walking pretty well, I feel more disabled on this trip. I haven't walked down crowded city streets since we were in Mexico City, and it seems everyone here is staring at their phones while they walk. It makes me nervous because I'm so afraid of getting knocked down.

I will say everywhere we have been, people have been incredibly accomodating. Today at the Victor Hugo house, we were led to a hidden elevator to take us to the main floor. And this same person arrived when we were ready to leave.

Jerry has insisted he is perfectly happy traveling at a slower pace, and I am working on not feeling like a burden.

Tomorrow morning we get up early to catch a train to Bordeaux. We head to our 125-person boat, and in the evening start cruising.

I need to remind myself that this is my dance, and it might be slower than others, and likely slower than I'd like it to be, but I will atill have a great adventure.

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